During my 5 years of "secondary infertility", I had many friends say, "Well, at least you have Jacob," inferring that he was "enough". Anyone who knows me knows that I've always wanted lots of children. I was blindsided when we tried for baby #2 and found out I had issues.
I often felt like I didn't belong in the with the "Infertiles" because I was able to achieve a pregnancy without any help. Once we started with the fertility help, I didn't feel like I belonged with the "Fertiles". Right now today, I still don't know where I fit.
All I know for sure is that I am very blessed and greatful that God allowed me to be a mom to more children. And that, is all that really matters.